QPEX 8th Anniversary Event

July 12th-14th, 2019

  • $100 At the door!

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Get excited for our 8th annual July Anniversary Party! Three days of excitement, food,  stage entertainment and a full day of classes on Saturday! This will be one of our biggest events to date.

Please note that this is a 21 and over, ID’s will be required!

Friday, July 12th, 2019
6:00 – 9:00
Registration Open
7:00 – ?:??
Mentoring Dungeon will be Open!
7:00 – ?:??
Little’s Story Time
JSin & Jivvin
Dungeon Open
Saturday, July 13th, 2019
9:00 am
Registration Opens
9:30 – 6:00
Vendor Room Open
10:00 – 11:00
Room A
10:00 – 11:00
Room B
12:30 – 1:30
Lunch Break (Food will be Available at the Concession Stand)
1:30 – 2:30
Room A
Rope Made Easy
2:45 – 3:45
Room A
Mommy Topping
2:45 – 3:45
Room B
4:00 – 5:00
Room A
Rough Body Play
Kink Medic
4:00 – 5:00
Room B
5:15 – 6:15
Room A
Cock and Balls & Fun oh Yeah
Cat & Michael
5:15 – 6:15
Room B
Dinner will Be served in Main Dungeon Area
8:00 – 8:30
Dungeon Opening Ceremony
8:30 – 1:30
Dungeon Play Area Open
Sunday, July 14th, 2019
9:00 – 10:00
Tantra Yoga for Couples
10:00 – 11:30
All You Would Like Breakfast Buffet
12:00 – 1:30
Round Table Discussions Tops, Bottoms, and Switches


Make It And Take It (Make Your Own Flogger)


For a minimal expense, guests will\create their own personal dragon tail or flogger.  Not content to just make the toy, I\present it from the concept of making it look “professionally done.”Time is spent\showing simple ways to embellish the item and turn it into something that you would be\proud to own—or even better yet give as a gift.  As a person identifying as a submissive,\I will tell you that there is no greater feeling than the moment that you kneel and present\a toy that you have personally handcrafted to your Master or Mistress.  Even when the\work is not up to par, it still has a quality that makes it stand out above all other toys.  It\was made with love.  But if you can do it and make it look good, then what more could\be asked for? The regular kit is $30.00 and includes all the materials for the flogger,\including a genuine Egyptian Cobra handle, pre-cut suede or finished leather, falls etc.—\everything needed to build a professional flogger.  The kit contains materials to create 20\falls with a 17” fall length and 7” handle.  For those wanting something just a bit longer, I\offer a deluxe kit for $35.00.  This deluxe kit contains materials for 20 falls that are 22”\long and an 8” weighted handle. Those reserving a spot will have the added option of\pre-selecting colors if available.  I have been going out of my way to get nice leathers\that you will want to use for the flogger you want.  Specialty leathers, including Elk, are\available by request (special pricing).Payment at class time — Please bring cash.


If You Give A Sadist A Cookie
All about the art of pick up play! How do you approach someone? How you can use your scene negotiations to build excitement! ( All the YES’S, not a list of NO’s). We’ll work through laying the foundation for an awesome scene while reducing the risk of consent issues, all at the same sexy time! An interactive class, bring your toy bags!



In the great shift from No means No, to only Yes means Yes, have we lost site of the power of NO? Why do we still have trouble saying NO? Our instincts have developed over the millennia to alert us to issues that we ignore, but our minds eye will always see. So why has it become expected of us to worry about someone else’s needs, or another’s perception of us, instead of expressing our own boundaries and giving that No answer?

Why is it that our ‘No’ answer is often not respected? How does our societal politeness affect how we deliver a ‘No’ answer? Why one should graciously Receive, Respect and Reward the ‘No’ answer. Make the conversation shift from ‘No’ to ‘yes Yes YES!!’ We’ll talk about these issues and more as we examine The Power of NO.


Self Rejection and Social Anxiety
This is a discussion class on social awkardness, self rejection, finding self-acceptance, learning strategies for managing anxiety in social situations and finding courage to pursue social relationships to whatever end. Participants are encouraged to share their past experiences in an open and safe environment. There will be some demonstrations on meditation and breathing techniques.


Pole Dancing
I will be teaching a basic beginners pole dancing class that will play out the basic technique used in pole dancing. These techniques can be used for personal exercise purposes or to enhance intimate encounters with your partner. Please try to bring booty shorts and a sports bra or swimsuit to wear for this class. Come get fit and feel sexy while doing it!


Pegging for People of Size
You would love to peg, your partner is dying for you to do it but none of the strap harnesses fit you, it’s difficult to maneuver it and how am I supposed to move my hips? What if your partner is a person of size or with limited mobility who would love to be pegged? We will discuss and give examples of extended sized Strap on Harnesses, discuss on different Dildos, poses that are easier on the back and don’t require too much flexibility, gentle stretches and exercises to help you loosen up and help achieve great penetration. We will also talk about lubes, stretching the derriere for ease of play, how to get your play area ready for all the delightful action and what things to do in advance to aftercare your partner and yourself when the action is over. Bring your questions and let’s have fun!


Spanking OTK for all body types
So you have met that bottom that just begs to be spanked but alas, your body structure presents a challenge. Or you meet this tiny perfect bottom, but how do you spank without causing some serious damage? Join me as we go over safe and fun ways to still achieve the closeness of OTK spanking, even when it seems difficult. We will discuss negotiating scenarios, positions that can be comfortable for both you and your partner and, explore how to find wonderful spots on different shaped bottoms. I will also discuss safety tips for the tops and how to use your whole arm, from shoulder to finger tips to create varied sensations. We will go over different implements that can be interchanged with OTK, ways to use them and to still achieve the intimacy and closeness of OTK spanking.

Meet Your Presenters


Bebe Blue Eyes

Community Service Slut Badge Earned!! For over 10 years, Bebe has been an overly active member of her local St. Louis, MO community, where she founded and facilitates the StL PolyHarmonic Discussion Group for local polyamorous persons! She has also taught for her local groups StL3, FLOG_StLouis, the Submissive Odyssey, and her very own kinky business. Bebe is currently serving her 3rd year with NCSF as Secretary and Midwest Polyamory Advocate. Also serving as Coalition Partner Rep for StL3 as mother of TNG Kinkster, IT Professional & Kinky sex business owner, she’s a busy girl.

A FetLife Greeter Alum of 4+ years, Bebe enjoyed being the first contact for so many that she greeted and still guides into the kink community. She’s contributed to the broader kink & poly communities, presenting Kinky Kollege Homecoming & Spring Break, Madtown Kinkfest and at her kinky home away from home, The Woodshed Orlando! But you may have met her whilst sitting the NCSF Table at COPE/Winter Wickedness, Beyond the Love, Kinky Kollege or F.I.R.E! Her passions are service to her community, education and personal responsibility through empowerment. And she’s a also huge flirt! So stop on by the NCSF booth at COPE for a visit!


Rosie Sparkles

Rosie Sparkles is a cross dresser, who identifies predominantly as a submissive, but can switch as needed. Proudly owned and serving Mistress Rhonda and the Twisted House of Iron as Alpha Sub, Rosie is a professional Magician, Stage Hypnotist (recently certified in weight loss hypnosis), and Psychic Entertainer.Rosie is also a BDSM leather artisan and corset maker(photos available) who builds quality, easily affordable toys that you want to own (all with a lifetime guarantee).Rosie has been active in the lifestyle since 1995. A lifestyle leather artisan, she is well represented in toy bags throughout Missouri and all points East. She is also a presenter of Lifestyle-oriented workshops


Sir_Wieland…(The Craftsman)
got his kinky start thru a desire to make kinky furniture. That journey started in 2007 and has been evolving ever since. His passion for rope may be influenced by over two decades of rock climbing and swiftwater rescue. His creativity and love of teaching has inspired others to explore with rope. Sir_Wieland also has a love for floggers and is oftern using floggers that he has made. He enjoys helping others to learn a variety of techniques, including Florentine. He is a sensual player whether with impact play or sliding a rope across a body.


Cat (cat_in_milw)
has 25 yrs BDSM/Power Exchange experience as both a submissive and Domme. She began her journey as a bedroom player and then, came into the Milwaukee community in 2002. Cat is a co-leader for the Milwaukee Area subs’ gathering and Hands-on Power Exchange (HOPE). She enjoys teaching as well as rope, CBT, and impact play Together, they are co-facilitators of two SWIPE (Southern WI Power Exchange) groups in Milwaukee and Madison. They are also involved in many groups in Msdison, Milwaukee, and around the state.


Mistress Kayla Crowe
Inspired by modern sexuality. Mistress Kayla educates across the country on sissification, chastity training, CBT, sensation play, predicament bondage, rope tying, and poly relationships. Mistress Kayla has spent the last 10 years teaching and 15 years working in her local community to keep an open conversation about the BDSM lifestyle.


Jean Bardot
Latex Fetish Legend I Love Latex and working from my dungeon in Minneapolis or wherever fulfillment takes us. In one life, I’m a wildly ambitious, highly optimistic, talented fetish artist who lives to create attractive fetish print, web, and film projects that serve their intended purpose. I’m inspired by the uniqueness of individual projects and have a genuine talent for capturing their essence. In another life, I am an evil and sadistic Dominatrix in Minneapolis who fulfills all sorts of kinky dreams, with specialities in the areas of latex, bondage, S&M, breathplay and crossdressing, just to name a few. I have training and many years of experience in different areas which all apply to my identities as Mistress, Model, Actress, and Dominatrix


Wicked Wanda

As a Fat Positive BDSM Presenter, Wicked Wanda brings her love and passion for the lifestyle to her classes. Active in the BDSM Lifestyle since2 2005, Wanda enjoys sharing her love of spanking, paddling, canning, edge play chastity play and CBT with others. She can easily be recognized by her big smile.

She served as Vice President on 2010 and President from 2012 to 2014 for Satyricon, Madison, WI premier pansexual BDSM educational group. She has presented at MTKF, GLLA, Cap Con, Taste of Kink, Corn Con and Kinky Kollege. She is a member of the LRA in Chicago and active participant in Wisconsin and Illinois communities

Wicked Wanda is happily monogamish with her partner Kaze the Fox and is the proud owner of her long-time slave athanore. She is native of Puerto Rico and has lived in Southest Wisconsin for the last 23 years.


Pole Queen Christine
Christine started dancing in Columbia in 2003. Due to a history and dance and some acrobatics, she quickly came to love the stage and push herself to learn how to use the pole to the best of her ability. The pole became an extension of her skills and she soon gained the reputation of Pole Queen Christine from the club and her peers. From that point on, she dedicated herself to learning how to use the pole as a tool to enhance every performance. At her home club she was responsible for judging auditions as well as training other potential dancers. Besides Columbia, Christine was invited by feature entertainers to come and perform at clubs in St.Louis, Rolla, and Eldon in Missouri, as well as clubs in Wisconsin and many clubs on Bourbon Street in New Orleans, Louisiana. As an independent contractor she also contracted through a private party company out of Florida doing private parties throughout the tri-state area after leaving the club scene. Now dedicated to a healthier lifestyle, Christine comes to you in a manner to not only show the benefits of pole dancing as exercise, but also to enhance intimate interactions with partners. Can’t wait to see you in the class!


After over 40 years of working behind the lens I have made about every mistake you can while taking photographs. Having shot. Events, weddings, fetish, models, nudes,and the occasional still life I can say I have experience in most genres. I am still learning and hone if my craft and can pass along what I know.